Tired of Not Knowing Whether to Stay or Go? Do Both!

At worst, indecision is a killer. At best, it’s exhausting.

Because getting a divorce would impact you—and those around you—for the rest of your days, it’s understandable that you’d want to think it through as much as possible. There’s also a lot to consider: how the kids will handle the breakup, how you and your spouse will do, who will live where, what finances will look like, what others will think, what the future will hold and so much more.

Although leaving any relationship can be challenging, for those couples with kids, the decision to stay or go often feels like a moral dilemma: stay and model a not-so-good or even bad relationship; leave and negatively impact the kids’ lives. For this reason, some people never move away from the “thinking about leaving” phase. In fact, I’ve seen people remain undecided for years. Even decades.

Read more: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/contemplating-divorce/201703/tired-not-knowing-whether-stay-or-go-why-not-do-both

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